After ending a relationship with someone who had narcissistic traits, many adults find themselves struggling with confusion, emotional exhaustion, anxiety, and self-doubt. These experiences are not uncommon — in fact, research shows that relationships involving narcissistic traits often include manipulation, psychological stress, and control patterns that can leave lasting emotional and cognitive effects.

Therapy is powerful, but the work doesn’t stop when your session ends. What you do between sessions can make a big difference in your growth and healing. Whether you’re practicing mindfulness or exploring deeper patterns through psychodynamic therapy, integrating small daily practices can enhance your journey—and help you get more out of every appointment.

By using calming techniques and fostering social connection, we can return to a state of calm and reestablish balance in our nervous system. Polyvagal Theory suggests that these responses are governed by the autonomic nervous system (ANS), specifically the vagus nerve, which regulates physiological states of arousal. The theory posits that our ANS operates on a continuum from safety to danger, and the body shifts between states of calm and activation based on perceived threat