Many people notice patterns in their relationships that they don’t fully understand. They may struggle with trust, become anxious about abandonment, or withdraw emotionally during conflict. Trauma can change the way the brain interprets threat and emotional safety.

In my therapy practice, one thing I see a lot is women who overgive. And while it might seem like a strength or something “nice” to do, overgiving can actually leave you feeling wiped out, frustrated, or like you’re losing yourself in the process.